Here's All You Need To Know About Séx and Women's Body

The “goal” of séx is pleasurable touch, not necessarily earthquake org-asm, it is far more than intercourse as it includes sensually arousing touch that is best to enjoy for its own sake. It must be given freely as a gift, not forced or used as a reward or punishment. It is also essential to respect your partner’s style of arousal. While men are often aroused and then pursue séx, women often need a sense of emotional intimacy before feeling aroused and ultimately pursuing séxual intimacy.

Each partner is responsible for seeking to create séxual satisfaction for one another via good communication. It is important to talk about what turns you on and what turns you off; share desires and fantasies, as well as séxual hang-ups. There is no crime in modesty or boldness. What’s important is to be comfortable with how you connect séxually and the frequency you do so; and that you connect in a way that leaves you satisfied.

If your desire is low, acknowledge the challenge, you are taking good step toward improving your relationship. Many men put their wives in a tight corner when they look out for org-asm or climaxing from their wives, hence these women live a life of faking org-asm...

Many men wonder why wives fake org-asm. To them, it should be very simple. But ejac-ulation is easy for men while orgasm isn’t that easy! It probably starts when a woman is not really feeling the passion in bed, or isn’t really turned on while having it.

And she looks up at her man who is probably sweating, panting and exerting virile strength while penetrating her, to make her reach orgasm. And when a woman knows she’s just not going to climax anyway, it’s easier for her to just fake it instead of waiting for the elusive passion to overwhelm her and sweep her into a thigh quivering orgasm! Faking it and convincing her man that she’s just experienced a tremor in her loins would at least make her man feel proud of himself.

Faking an orgasm often is never good, not for the man, and definitely not for the woman! But in case men are wondering, it will surprise men to know that the biggest reason is pity. Yes pity, you’re not arousing her enough to bring her to clim-ax, and she’s given up on achieving an orgasm. But she doesn’t want to hurt your feelings because she cares about you, and finds it easier to just fake it and end it. She knows you’re trying hard. She’s feeling bad about it, but for some reason, she’s just not able to climax. And she doesn’t want to hurt your feelings or crumble your confidence, so she lies to you just to see you smile proudly.

Another reason is that she’s not in the mood; she’s having it only because you want it.

Some other time, the woman may just be preoccupied. There’s something on her mind, and she’s too distracted to enjoy it. She may make love to you, but her preoccupied mind may just distract her from having a real org-asm. And sometimes husbands are just boring! When a wife notices that her husband is waiting for her, she can just give in to help relieve him. You’re almost about to explode, and she can feel it. You move in and out of her a few times, and you hold your breath like you’re trying hard to prevent a case of premature ejac-ulation, before continuing again. 

Or when she is in a hurry, maybe you’re initiating séx out of the blues, and she’s got better things to do. Perhaps, she wants to sleep, watch her favourite show, attend to the baby or get out and do something. What’s the fastest way to wrap it up? Yeah, fake it! When a woman is under pressure to make it awesome maybe during your special day like your anniversary or a birthday, and if she doesn’t feel great that night, she might just pretend to be completely turned on and aroused, just to make séx more memorable for you.

When she is not comfortable with a particular position, be assured she will fake org-asm. Maybe you’ve read about a new position that you want to try, or you’re suddenly feeling very ho-rny while watching the television. And you push her down on a hard surface, contort her body and pen-etrate her. She may try to enjoy it, but if it’s too uncomfortable to experience any pleasure out of it, she may just want to end it with a fake org-asm.

She’s never really had an orgasm! 

Well, there are many women out there who still don’t know what an orgasm is. They’ve had séx, and they have programmed their minds to squeeze their pel-vis before a guy ejac-ulates. They just don’t know what it feels like to org-asm, and they don’t really care to fix it because they’re too used to it!

When a wife is angry, and doesn’t want to confront the issue or sit up talking about it and you are teasing her and seducing her into having séx, she may find it easier to just do the deed. Instead of picking up quarrels with you, on such occasion, she will fake orgasm.

When a wife is stressed out, inasmuch as she wants to enjoy séx, she may just be too tired to enjoy it. And if she doesn’t want to upset you or make you feel bad about your performance, she may just fake it.