Funmi Akingbade
Many
couples believe that when it comes to good sex, if you can’t beat them
surely you can join them. They fake everything about sex from the
beginning to the end. After many rounds of faking, sex becomes
predictable and discarded. Some couples fight to regain the spark back
and make blue films their guiding light but yet after a while they
wonder; no explosions of passion. No breathy proclamations of desire, no
tumultuous climax.
How can everyone in movies be having fiery, combustible sex when we barely create a spark?
Relax. Do you know that TV shows and
movies give us this much lopsided representation of what sex is supposed
to be like. Everyone seems to be climaxing and having orgasms all the
time from whatever they’re doing. They make you believe something is
wrong with you or your spouse. Sex in the real world isn’t always
perfect, and it doesn’t have to always end with an earth-shattering
climax. Real-life sex can almost