10 Ways To Succeed With Women Quickly

We all want to have an attractive, fun and loyal woman (or women) in our lives. The question is; will it takes us a lifetime to figure out how to do it or can we learn this quickly so we can spend the rest of our lives enjoying ourselves with the women we’ve always wanted? The 10 tips below will get you on the fast track to success — do yourself a favor and check them out right now.

Number 10

Learn the magic of “Cocky & Funny”

The technique of “Cocky & Funny” is a magical combination of humor and arrogance that attracts women quickly. One guy wrote to me and explained that he walked up to a woman at a concert and said, "This band sucks." Yeah, that’s sorta Cocky, but saying that to a total stranger just isn't funny. If you say, "Hey, do you like this band?" and she says, "Yeah," and you say, "Doesn't surprise me. What are you the guitar player's sister?” It's funny, but it's also kind of unclear. It involves the woman you're talking to without her really being able to catch on to what you mean. Cocky guys attract women — that's reality — but guys who are only Cocky also upset and offend a lot of women. Add more Funny — it's much better for her and for you.

Number 9

Learn how to handle “pivot points”

One thing that helped me tremendously was learning how to handle “pivot points” — those times when you have to make an important choice on how to handle a situation with a woman. Let’s say a girl tells you, “It’d be weird to kiss you — we’re such good friends.” Try playfully saying something like, "You're probably not that good of a kisser anyway," and change the subject. Then tease her about it later. What this does is set up a challenge in her mind, and it will work wonders if done correctly. Later, say, "Come here," and tell her to close her eyes. Lean in really close, like you're going to kiss her and she can feel your lips just touching hers, then lean back and say, "Never mind, I still bet that you don't know how to kiss.” Get it? After you do this three or four times, lean into smelling her neck as I describe in the bonus booklet called Sex Secrets that comes with Double Your Dating.

Number 8

Become a master of women’s “tests”

When you first meet a woman, expect that she’s going to be throwing out “tests” from the get go. When this happens, just look her in the eye and give her that cool, calm, sly smile that says "that was almost cute, little girl." Hot women are testing to find those little clues that tell them that you're faking it — that you're just another loser who's trying to act cool. Don't drop the ball. Give her a sly smile, and say, "Cute" and then say, "You love me."

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Number 7

Have one “default move” for every situation

Ever been with a woman but you didn’t know what you should do next? We’ve all been there. One thing that really makes me laugh is that most guys spend more time rehearsing their voicemail messages then they do rehearsing scenarios with women. You need one good, solid, default thing to do in each common situation with women. Here's your homework: Take out a piece of paper and write down your one single favorite way to start a conversation with a woman. Plan out exactly how it should go in your mind. Next, mentally rehearse this scenario over and over until you have it clear in your mind. Finally, go out tomorrow night and use this one introduction to meet 10 women. The next day, sit down again for a few minutes and think about how it worked for you and how you could improve your approach. You won’t believe your results.

Number 6

Learn to answer “trick questions”

As your skills improve, you’ll notice women asking you trick questions like, “Will I ever have a chance with you?” When a woman asks a question like this, it means that she's feeling very insecure, because she knows that she's dealing with a man who has options. She "gets it" that you can go out and meet women any time you want, and she's exposing this insecurity to you by asking this.

Answer with, "Well, let me think about it" or "A chance to do what?" or "What are you willing to offer in exchange?" in a Cocky & Funny tone of voice. When you answer with a confusing, funny, arrogant answer, it takes the negative tension out of the air (because you used humor) and it adds some positive tension (because you hinted that she does have a chance with you). This is a great opportunity to use your Cocky & Funny material — so do it!

Number 5

Another tricky question…

Let’s say you’re kissing a woman, etc. and she says, “You just want to have sex with me, don’t you?” I would probably answer something like, "No, I was thinking that since we were kissing passionately and feeling each other's bodies that this was probably going to lead to pure friendship." If she pushed the issue and asked something like, "Do you just want sex or do you want to have a relationship?" I'd probably answer, "You're right. Let's just go get married tonight." As you know, I don’t like the idea of being dishonest or misleading people. The point is that by using a very direct, sarcastic, Cocky & Funny attitude, you can address the issue and basically say, "Look, it's obvious that we both want to have sex, and it's OK if we do. It doesn't have to mean anything in particular and if things work out between us, then they do."

Number 4

Get a handle on your jealousy

Jealousy is an interesting emotion, especially when it comes to dating. Generally speaking, when a woman knows that you're seeing other women it will make you more attractive. However, you must be careful; jealousy can make people crazy, and it can lead otherwise normal people to do all kinds of insane things. My perspective is that you need to live your life and not worry about what others think of you. This trait will lead to women finding you more attractive. If you're always worrying about whether a woman will be upset because she sees you out with another woman, then you'll be acting like a Wussy all night because you're scared. On the other hand, if you could care less what others think of you, then it will project into all other areas of your behavior, and will lead to other good things.

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Number 3

Know how to turn around “flaky” women

We’ve all had the experience of setting up a meeting or date with a woman, only to have her not show up. Most guys think this is the end of it, but really it’s just the beginning and it all depends on your response. The next time you see her say, "OK, you're playing hard to get, but it's not working on me (in a funny way). Give me your e-mail and number, and I'll call you in a few days." Then get her info, and wait a few days to call her. When you do reach her, tell her that she owes you a cup of tea for being flaky, and make her pay for it. When you do this correctly — with a playful attitude — it communicates all the right things about you, things that will spark her attraction toward you in a big way.

Number 2

Flaky women — part II

When a woman flakes on you, bust her balls, make fun of her for flaking and tell her that she's on strike one. You might want to tell her: "Well, since you flaked out on me once, now you have to take me out. Here's my address and the directions to my house. Come pick me up." You need to let her know that it's not OK for her to be flaky, and at the same time use her flaky behavior to tease her. Just don’t make the mistake of losing your “cool” and showing her that she ruffled your feathers.

Number 1

Commit to learning the skills

The single most important thing you can do to succeed with women and dating is to make the commitment to improve your skills. When you decide once and for all that you’ll do whatever it takes to learn how to communicate with a woman in a way that sparks attraction, you won’t believe how quickly your success can turn around. Invest in yourself, invest in your skills and it’ll pay dividends for the rest of your life.